the birth boss membership
not how to give birth - but how to stay in control of it.
Birth doesn’t get decided in the room.
It gets shaped in pregnancy - in appointments, recommendations, and moments you weren’t prepared for.
This is where you learn to navigate that.
the PROBLEM i see FAMILIES FACE:
They prepare for birth. They don’t prepare for the moments that shape it - and they don’t realise until they’re in it.
A routine appointment brings something new. You’re given little information, with little time to process. A recommendation is made that wasn’t in your plan. Suddenly, you’re required to make a decision you weren’t expecting, and you don’t feel ready to make.
This is the part nobody prepares you for… until now
The Birth Boss Membership is ongoing doula-led support designed to help you navigate NHS maternity care with clarity and confidence as your pregnancy unfolds.
So you’re not figuring it out on the spot. And you’re not left second guessing yourself after.
You understand what’s actually happening in your care, how to stay grounded when pressure shows up, and feel steady in the decisions you’re making - for you and your baby.
Not by pushing against the system. And not by blindly following it either.
But by knowing how to move within it - with clarity, confidence, and control.
inside the birth boss membership
Everything inside is designed to help you navigate pregnancy as it unfolds.
This isn’t just preparation for birth, it supports everything that shapes it - before labour even begins.
When Care Starts to Change
Support for the moments where everything seems to shift.
When a growth scan is suggested, a blood pressure reading is flagged, or you’re sent for further testing, and suddenly you’re being asked to make decisions you didn’t expect.
So instead of spiralling, or just going along with it, you understand what’s happening, why it’s being suggested, and what to do next.
The Birth Boss Decision-Making Framework
Introducing you to my personal decision-making framework I’ve used with clients in real life pregnancy and birth situations within maternity care.
Clear, practical ways to make confident decisions in real life - not just in theory.
So when something comes up, you know how to slow things down, weigh up your options properly, and move forward without panic, pressure, or second-guessing.
Advocacy, Communication & Using Your Voice
Learn how to get the most out of your maternity appointments - so you’re not just being moved through your care, you’re actively part of the conversations about your pregnancy and birth.
So you know what you can ask to understand why certain things are suggested, how to ask it without feeling confrontational, and how to communicate clearly and confidently when it matters most.
How Maternity Care Actually Works
A clear, honest understanding of the system you’re navigating - so you can make sense of everything else and feel grounded in where you are.
So you understand how recommendations are made in NHS maternity care, why different professionals might say different things, and how guidelines, policies, and personal care all interact.
Ongoing Support As Your Pregnancy Unfolds
Monthly live Q&As giving you the chance to have your questions answered by an experienced doula working alongside families inside NHS maternity care every day.
You’ll also have the option to upgrade to 1:1 pregnancy doula support via whatsapp or a 1:1 birth prep session - so when something comes up, you have a trusted place to turn.
how this works
This isn’t just another online course to sit down and work though (and probably only watch half of).
It’s real-time pregnancy support, designed to be there when you actually need it - whether you’re preparing for an appointment, processing one you’ve just had, or navigating a change in your care.
The Membership is the place for you to come, use what’s relevant, and come back whenever something new comes up.
Everything is designed to fit around real life.
Short, focussed resources you can actually use in real time - including audio you can listen to on the go, short form videos, and quick read PDF guides you can refer to when you need them.
No hours of content to work through in order, just clear practical support when you need it most!
Access the Membership for £8.99 per month (this is founding members rate and is subject to increase soon). Cancel anytime. No ongoing commitment.
pregnancy support designed for real life
Frequently Asked Questions
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Once you join, you’ll have immediate access to all of the resources inside the Membership.
You can explore the content at your own pace and return to it throughout your pregnancy whenever you need support - whether that’s before an appointment, after one, or when something comes up in your care.
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Once you join the Membership you’ll receive your unique log in details by email, giving you immediate access to the resources.
There’s no set order - you can use it in a way that fits around what you need.
If something specific has already come up in your pregnancy, you can go straight to When Care Starts to Change and then the Birth Boss Decision-Making Framework for support understanding what’s happening and what to do next.
If you want to start building your understanding of how NHS maternity care works and how to get the most out of your appointments, begin with How Maternity Care Actually Works and Advocacy, Communication & Using Your Voice
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You can join at any point in pregnancy.
If you’re early in your pregnancy, the Membership will support you as your pregnancy unfolds - helping you to get the most out of your appointments and feel prepared for what might come up later.
If something has already changed in your care, the Membership will give you support in real time - so you feel clear on what’s happening, what questions to ask, and how to approach what’s coming next.
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Yes.
The Membership is designed to make doula support accessible to more families navigating pregnancy in NHS maternity care.
There are monthly live Q&A where you can ask a doula about what you’re navigating in real time.
If you’d like more personalised support, there’s also an option to upgrade to 1:1 virtual pregnancy support via Whatsapp or a bespoke 1:1 birth prep session, so you have a trusted place to when something comes up.
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Yes.
Most families discover that something comes up in their pregnancy at some point. Getting ahead of that - understanding how the system works and having tools ready - means you’re not scrambling when pressure appears.
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Yes.
The Membership is designed to provide support when you need it, as your pregnancy unfolds.
There’s no ongoing commitment - you can cancel any time.
After you cancel, you’ll keep access to the Membership until the end of your current billing period. You won’t be charged again after that.
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You’re welcome to rejoin at any time.
Just a note that you’ll rejoin at the current Membership price.
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The Membership is designed to fit around real life, with short, focussed resources you can use in real time - whether that’s a quick read before an appointment, or something to listen to on the go.
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No.
The resources have been created by an experienced doula working alongside NHS maternity care in the UK.
None of the resources are designed to replace medical advice.
The Membership provides maternity care navigation during pregnancy and as you prepare for birth.