welcome to YOUR birth boss membership

Congratulations! You’ve just bagged yourself a doula in your pocket!

From this point forwards you’ll have access to independent expert guidance to help you navigate your pregnancy inside NHS maternity care.

Come back to your Membership whenever you need clarity, reassurance or a solid plan to move forward with confidence.

let’s get started

Simply select what’s coming up for you right now, and I’ll show you exactly where to go next!

where to start

If you’re new to the Membership, begin with the Start Here section.

You’ll find a simple introduction as to how the Membership works, how to get the most from the resources available, and guidance on where to begin based on where you are in your journey right now.

Then, explore the resource library in whatever order feels most relevant for you and where you are in your journey right now.

There is no right order to work through the resources in and you do not have to work through them all in a particular time frame.

The Membership is here to support you as your pregnancy unfolds.

Explore the resource library

Below you’ll find the core pillars of the membership.

If you’re currently navigating a change in your care or arising recommendations, head to When Care Starts To Change and The Birth Boss Decision-Making Framework which will give you doula-led guidance and support on specific pregnancy scenarios to help you feel more informed and in control.

If you’re looking to better understand the system you’re navigating before decisions arise, start with How Maternity Care Actually Works where you’ll gather an understanding of the system you’re navigating. From there, the Advocacy, Communication and Using Your Voice section will help you develop the skills to get the most out of your care and practice proactive preparation for birth.

This Membership is designed to meet you where you are.

Start with what feels most relevant to you right now, and come back to the rest when you need it.

the sections

WHEN CARE STARTS TO CHANGE

Support for the moments you weren’t expecting. Explore common pregnancy scenarios, recommendations and changes in care with balanced, evidence-based guidance.

THE BIRTH BOSS DECISION-MAKING FRAMEWORK

A practical framework developed through years of supporting families navigating decisions inside NHS maternity care. Learn how to make decisions that consider evidence, emotion, personal circumstances and your preferences.

ADVOCACY, COMMUNICATION & USING YOUR VOICE

Build confidence in appointments, conversations, and navigating your care. Practical tools to help you ask questions, communicate clearly and feel more involved in your care, whilst developing essential skills for labour and birth.

HOW MATERNiTY CARE ACTUALLY WORKS

Understand how the maternity care system works, so your experience inside it makes more sense. Learn how recommendations, guidelines, policy, and risk influence maternity care, and gain the context needed to move through it with clarity and confidence.

live support

Within your Membership, you have access to monthly live Q&A sessions, where you can ask questions, reflect on appointments, and get doula-led guidance in real time.

Missed a live session? You’ll find all the replays in the LIVE Q&A Replays section.

upcoming q&A’s

Live Q&A themes rotate monthly and may include:

  • understanding appointments & recommendations

  • informed consent & decision-making

  • advocacy & communication

  • navigating complex or “high risk” care

  • open support sessions

Themes guide the session - your questions always come first.


20th July 2026

Online (via zoom)

Theme: Making sense of appointments & recommendations.


24th August 2026

Online (via zoom)

Theme: Making decisions without feeling rushed or scared,


21st September 2026

Online (via zoom)

Theme: How to ask questions without it feeling confrontational.

need more personalised support?

The Membership provides education, tools, and ongoing doula-led guidance. But sometimes you need more individual support for your specific circumstances, especially if you’re navigating changes in your care or recommendations.

If you’d like tailored guidance, appointment preparation, decision-making support or ongoing pregnancy support, you can access:

1:1 Birth Prep

Pregnancy Doula Support

To find out more or with help working out what’s best for you roight now, bopok yoru clarity call below:

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